Statistics That Will Blow Your Mind And Why Identity Is Different For Adoptees
Nov 19, 2025
Summary
In this episode of the Resilience Project podcast, host Julie Brumley, a trauma-informed adoptee coach and somatic healing guide, explores the complex topic of identity for adoptees. She shares statistics on adoptee mental health and suicide rates, discusses the challenges of identity formation due to early life disruptions, and offers a new definition of identity from an adoptee perspective. Julie emphasizes the importance of reclaiming identity from within and introduces the concept of a "belonging blueprint" to help adoptees find self-belonging and healing.
Takeaways
- Identity is formed through early relationships, often disrupted for adoptees.
- Adoptees are statistically more likely to face mental health challenges.
- Reclaiming identity involves understanding and healing from past trauma.
- Identity is more than labels; it's the truth within.
- Adoptees often experience multiple ruptures affecting identity.
- Reclamation of identity is a personal journey for adoptees.
- Understanding identity helps in healing and self-belonging.
- Adoptees need to recognize and name their feelings for healing.
- Belonging comes from within, not external validation.
- The 'belonging blueprint' aids in adoptee healing.
Sound bites
- "Identity is the truth hidden within."
- "Reclaiming identity from within."
- "Adoptees face complex identity challenges."
- "Belonging comes from within."
- "Healing starts with naming feelings."
- "Adoptees are 35 times more likely to commit suicide."
- "Identity is more than labels."
- "Reclamation is a personal journey."
- "Understanding identity aids healing."
- "The belonging blueprint for adoptees."
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